all that is to life is but a matter of choices.
never leave anything to fate.

there's no such thing as destiny.

what happens to you, happens because you chose it to happen.
you don't blame on it fate. you don't blame it on life.

and it wasn't God's fault either. nor is it His plan.
there is no "masterplan". we go through life day by day making decisions.
God doesn't make these decisions. you do.
it was your choice. it is your choice. and it will forever be your choice.
all the way. till the rest of your life.

its called free will. its what He gave you.
it was never His will. its yours all along.

we are not special.
we are not crap or trash either.

we just are.

and what happens, happens because we made it happen.
nobody else.

you can't just stand back and watch everything you've ever worked hard on crumble into pieces. you can't just leave it all to, what, fate? you pick up the pieces and you try to bring it back. but if you can't, it was your decision to give up, right smack in your subconscious, you know that it isn't worth it. but if you decide to fight all the way, it was your decision to keep it. fate has nothing to do with it. destiny is bogus.

you make your own destiny by your choices.